He's the One???

Tiba-tiba...aq pengen nulis...pengen...pengenn..sebelum itu semua hilang keselip entah kemana..mending sekarang aku abadiin *ceilah..abadiin..di blog aku..jadi mungkin nih..saat suatu hari nanti pengen baca atau pengen menimbang2 lagi..bisa buka rumusan ini...hahahha.. :D

Sebelumnya thanks banget buat femaledaily, yang belakangan jadi buat aku pinter.. lumayan pinter dan sedikit dewasa dalam beberapa hal baru..make up, fashion, skin care..sekarang tentang C-I-N-T-A...walah...cinta lagi...hahhaha..ternyata setelah diubek-ubek..banyak juga ya tema yg diusung di female daily ini, dan yang baru aku temuin..love actually. nah, setelah dibuka2 lahkoq nemu banyak hal yang enak juga buat tambahan bacaan sekaligus tambahan pelajaran...ceile...hahahah, maklum..umur udah tua gini.. harus ngejar ilmu hidup..masak cuma ilmu pengetahuan aja....gini deh jadinya..kalo kena masalah dikit cengeng gak jelas kayak aku ini..hahhaha.. :D

Sudahlah terlalu jauh...intinya beberapa hari ini aku baca post2 di threat yg menurutq sangat menarik :D yaitu...*sabar saudara2 ...hahah... ini dia... How do You Know He's 'The One'? 


Nah..penting ini..pentingg..*tolong dicatet. Ya Allah..cerewet banget si ibu satu ini..ya ini mau di catet..jadi ceritanya aq mendadak kagum nih ma salah satu member FD namanya Lena..dia ngasih tips yang lengkap banget dari yahoo..buat kita menimbang2 sebelum melangkah lebih jauh that.. He's The One??  karena u knowlah...setiap manusia pasti ingin menikah sekali..ceile..udah jauh aja ngomongnya nikah..hihihih..*inget umur dekk...heheh.. Tapi penting juga kan kalo kita mendeteksi lebih awal, daripada nantinya kita sudah melangkah jauh..dan lama..ternyata.. he's not the one, berasa buang2 waktu kan.. ??makanya..yukz..kita timbang2...walah.. ini dia contekannya yang berhasil di rangkum.. :

"Some people say they "just knew" that they were dating their future spouse. But what about the rest of us? What happens when you're not sure if he's The One? If you're considering long-term commitment or marriage, it's time to ask yourself some tough questions. Below, 10 signs that may indicate he's not for you.

1. You have a list of things he needs to stop doing/saying/wearing if he wants your relationship to work. If you're fixating on his flaws, he's either not the one you want or you're not ready for a serious relationship. Cutting him loose allows you time to grow and gives you the opportunity to meet a guy whose flaws you can embrace -- or at least accept.
2. You don't trust him. A small dose of jealousy can be healthy, but if you're hacking into his email account, and going berserk when he goes out without you, something's wrong. If there's something about him that truly warrants your distrust, then perhaps he's not the right one for you.
3. You avoid conflict at any cost. Fighting is healthy. And, when done right (in the non-accusatory, rational sort of way), it can be a great way to air grievances, fix problems in your relationship, and come to a deeper understanding of each other. Ignoring problems is not the same as having no problems at all... even if it looks that way.
4. When you're sad, you don't turn to him for comfort. When you're a giant ball of tears and snot, do you lock yourself into the bathroom so he can't see you at your worst? If you're worried about scaring him away, one of you isn't ready for total commitment. Mr. Right should make you smile through your tears and be a calming, not stressful, presence.
5. One of you is struggling with an addiction. He's sweet. He's exciting. He loves you very much. But he loves his alcohol habit or his weekly gambling fix more. Don't fool yourself into thinking that you can change him or that your relationship will be strong enough to withstand the heartache that addiction will inevitably bring. An addict may be able to change, but he'll do so on his own terms.
6. You can't really imagine him as the father of your children. Ask yourself: Would he make a great parent? Is he financially responsible? Would he be an equal partner in your future together? If you have doubts, he's probably not the one.
7. Your long-term, non-negotiable goals in life are incompatible. You want kids; he doesn't. You go to church every week; he's an atheist. He lives in the country and doesn't want to move; you can't imagine ever leaving the city. Superficial differences can be overcome, but differences in basic values are harder to smooth over. Ask yourself: "Would I be willing to compromise on this?" If the answer is absolutely not, you may not be right for each other.
8. You don't respect each other. He puts you down in front of your friends and complains about you to his parents. You roll your eyes when he talks because there's just something about him that embarrasses you. A relationship without respect can't sustain itself.
9. You're not attracted to him. Physical intimacy is a hugely important component of a romantic relationship. If he doesn't do it for you, he's probably not your best long-term match.
10. On paper he seems great, but you have this strange feeling... Don't ignore your gut. You may get along on a superficial level, but if your instincts are telling you he's not the one for you, listen. That little voice inside your head does not lie." 

Manggut-manggut...manggut-manggut... artinya apa seh??hehehhe.. OK..tolong dibantu ya..google translate..lalu berpikir... ..tunggu beri waktu.. ..1tahun.. *loh??lama amat??gag jadi sehari cukup..

Dan akhirnya, setelah ditimbang, dipikir, ditelaah, dirasakan dari lubuk hati yang paling dalam (walah...kesuwen), dengan berat hati saya memutuskan.... Insya allah....He's The one..Amin.. (sekian)

So..how about you??